POINTING OUT.....

We often excel at identifying the faults in others. It's easy to criticize and say, "You... yes you...it was your fault," without acknowledging that our own perspective might also be flawed.

Take the story of my friend Niharika, for example. She was a stunning and bright individual, but perhaps not the most mature. She had a boyfriend named Akshath, who, according to Niharika's best friend Namita, was nothing but a spoiled rich kid.

Namita was openly unsupportive of their relationship. Niharika, on the other hand, was determined to live her life her way, even if it meant accepting that her best friend wasn't on board.

As fate would have it, Namita soon found herself in a similar situation. Within a few months, she was engaged to Udith—a decision that surprised many, given her previous proclamations about delaying marriage until her thirties. 

Niharika couldn't help but feel frustrated by this turn of events. She knew Udith well and believed he wasn't the right match for Namita, who was beautiful and possessed a sharp intellect and promising future. To Niharika, it appeared as though Namita had completely lost her judgment.

Both women made choices that seemed right to them at the moment, yet they were quick to critique each other's life decisions. It's a common human tendency to point fingers, but it becomes complicated when that finger is pointed back at us.

It brings to mind a thoughtful perspective I once read, which suggested that it's wise to tread carefully through life, as if there were patches of ice underfoot—not to halt progress, but to ensure that each step taken is deliberate. To avoid retracing our steps down the same flawed path, we must consider each move we make.

Therefore, it's time for self-reflection before jumping ahead. We should embrace courage yet remain cautious, cultivate optimism but not to the extent of naivety. We should live fully, yet not recklessly. By knowing where we're headed and being mindful of each stop along the way, we can navigate life's journey with wisdom and grace.

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